Day 1 to 2: Auckland
Recover from the flight. See the harbour, take the ferry to Devonport, and drive out to the Waitākere Ranges or Piha beach for a half day. Do not rush south on day one; jet lag and unfamiliar roads do not mix.
Day 3: Auckland to Rotorua (235 km, about 3 hours)
Drive south, with an optional Hobbiton stop at Matamata (book ahead). Settle in Rotorua for geothermal parks and Māori culture.
Day 4: Rotorua to Taupō (80 km, about 1 hour)
An easy day. Huka Falls, the lake, and a soak in a hot stream. Use the spare time to rest before the longer drives ahead.
Day 5: Taupō to Wellington (375 km, about 4.5 hours)
The long North Island leg. Break it in the Manawatū. Arrive in Wellington, drop or keep the car depending on your ferry plan.
Day 6: Wellington and the Cook Strait ferry
Spend the morning at Te Papa, then take the afternoon ferry to Picton (3.5 hours, book ahead in summer, around NZ$60 per person plus the vehicle). The run through the Marlborough Sounds at the end is the scenic part.
Day 7: Picton to Kaikōura (155 km, about 2 hours)
Drive down the east coast. Kaikōura is the place for whale watching and seals. The coastal road was rebuilt after the 2016 earthquake and is in good shape.
Day 8: Kaikōura to Christchurch (180 km, about 2.5 hours)
Continue south to Christchurch. The rebuilt city centre is worth a walk; the Re:START story and the Botanic Gardens are free.
Day 9: Christchurch to Lake Tekapo (230 km, about 3 hours)
Head inland to the Mackenzie Country. Tekapo and Lake Pukaki are the photo stops. Stay for the dark skies.
Day 10: Tekapo to Wanaka via Mount Cook (300 km, about 4 hours with the detour)
Detour to Aoraki/Mount Cook for the Hooker Valley walk, then continue over the Lindis Pass to Wanaka. A long but rewarding day.
Day 11: Wanaka to Queenstown (70 km, about 1 hour)
Short drive over the Crown Range. Settle in Queenstown for two nights.
Day 12: Milford Sound day trip
A very long day from Queenstown (around 12 hours return). Many people take a coach so they can rest; self-driving means an early start via Te Anau. Book the cruise. If this feels like too much, base in Te Anau the night before instead.
Day 13: Queenstown
A buffer day for activities, weather, or simply catching breath. Walks around the lake are free; the gondola and luge are a fair-value family option.
Day 14: Queenstown departure
Fly home from Queenstown to avoid backtracking. If you have any slack, the drive to Glenorchy in the morning is a quiet, fitting finish.
Practical notes
Total driving is roughly 2,000 km plus the ferry, spread thin enough that no single day is brutal except the Milford return. Open-jaw flights into Auckland and out of Queenstown cost more than a return but save two days of backtracking, which is worth it on a trip this length. Book the Cook Strait ferry and the Milford cruise as soon as your dates are fixed; both sell out in summer. Budget roughly NZ$200 to NZ$300 a day per person all in, more in Queenstown.
If your fourteen days slip to ten, cut Kaikōura and the West Coast and keep the spine of Auckland, Rotorua, the ferry, Tekapo, Mount Cook and Queenstown. The honest mistake most first-timers make is booking one town per night the whole way; you will spend the holiday packing. Give yourself at least two two-night stops so some mornings are not about the car.